How to use sexbeds and animated furniture
Please show respect and politeness to each other. Unfortunately there are always people who harass. If you meet them, please file an Abuse report (Help, Report Abuse) and/or IM Ina Pidgeon. When i am online and not AFK, i will undertake action right away. Please IM me also when a bed or other animated items stopped working.
SEXBEDS:
1. Click on the bed to get the main menu
2. You see a number of options to select, usually you find something like make love, cuddle, girl/girl etc.
3. Pick one you like
4. Now you see the menu of sex things to do. Select one
5. The pose balls are visible on the bed or other furniture now
6. Usually you see a blue and a pink one, the blue one is for a male and the pink one for a female. You can also use them when there are 2 males/females. Just try all positions 
7. You get a blue screen saying Animate your avatar, is this OK?
Choose Yes!
!! Make sure you have NO animation override on. AO’s will effect the animation of the sex furniture and will look really bad if you only sit or still stand while your partner is waiting for you.
!! Lag can cause a really slow performance of the sex furniture. Pose balls will appear but it can take some time when its laggy. Also synchronisation problems and starting of the animation can occur when Second Life is laggy (laggy = slow, you can’t move fast anymore, your environment freezes, chat is slow etc.)
8. To stop the animation you ALWAYS use Stand Up (you can find it on bottom of your screen). This way you will not walk around while your avatar is still in some sex animation.
POSEBALLS
Pose balls are usually 2 balls on furniture or on the floor, you can find them everywhere. They are round prims containing an animation. On Java Island you can find sex, dance, talk, cuddle and relax animations in pose balls.
Sometimes the floating text says what the animation does and who (male or female) should use the ball. If it doesn’t than usually the male poseball is blue and the female is pink. You select the poseball with your mouse, click on the pose ball you want to sit in (right click mouse) then you see a pie, select Sit Here or some similar text, and there you go! BTW all the poses/animations are open for every gender.
!! Make sure you have NO animation override on. AO’s will effect the animation!
Click on Stand Up to get out of the animation.
STOPPING ANIMATIONS
Sometimes you crash, teleport or forget to Stand Up and you are still in an animation. Go to the top of your screen, select Tools, Stop All Animations. This will stop your avatars animations.
Enjoy & have fun!